He is leaving to be alone to THINK - now what?

[Heartbroken]

You are right just be cautious - and the piecing group is not "as there" as much as this group - I have moved to piecing but post little to my sitch-- due to the pace - the lack of drama has slowed our whole sitch down somewhat (this is good)!

Ow probably will try to contact him - be prepared there too. My H Ow called three sep times, text'd and emailed him too. He told her buh bye over a month ago and yet it's only been three weeks since he actually talked to her. This addiction will lesson with each week but the marriage builders site says usually 3 wks minimum to get over it...

I am very happy for you - but you are being way smarter than me - I wanted him back ASAP - he held back thank God! Cuz now I do see he can only come back when he's 100% mine and he's almost there emotionally - we talk that May will be his last month at the apt - but we still take it day by day!

Piecing isn't much easier - the best part is now you are working with him vs. by yourself. R talks are still tuff and future talks are even tuffer but you have come sooooo far - just don't quit the DBing - it's so easy to slide into our old ways! CONGRATS!!!!