R u sure you don't know my H? He is all about control!! So, you do have a good point there, but I would think if the OW makes him so happy like he says, why not rush to the door?
Don't you think tha after awhile leading a double life would wear you down? At one point he was doing a little complaining hear and there about her, but would never go into specific details. At that time I kinda got the feeling he was getting tired or bored of her.
I am at a crossroads between "catering" and doing all the nicey wife stuff and thinking hell w/ it I shouldn't have to cook for mycheating H. He seemed so content and happy all the while cake eating where one time while he was actually eating a piece of cake I had baked, he laughed and jokingly said I'm having my cake and eating ot too.
