Hi RMG, nice choice on the ride my man! What you said about your exW never being able to kill feelings for you really struck a cord with me. There IS love there between you two and while I can understand that you dating may seem odd to some here, you are absolutely right in that you should not feel bad for your actions. Sometimes it is just nice to have the feelings that we have had going on for so long (wondering, fear, jealousy,etc.) reciprocated. Take care
Separated4Now,
Yes, there IS love between us. The problem is she is too numb inside to feel it. She may also just be so afraid of feeling it; as twisted as it sounds, I believe she associates her love for me with pain. This is truly an illusion.
I guess of all this may have snapped her to back to reality for a brief second. I really wish she would come out of the tunnel and actually talk to me heart to heart. For the record, I would be willing to talk about M, D and R whenever she wants. However, she would need to initiate that. She knows all of my phone numbers and e-mail addresses. Beyond that, I will have no contact with her.
As for the other ladies, I agree; it is good to have those feeling reciprocated. It is also refreshing to have ladies who are not hardened and really want to engage in open communication.
RMG
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"
