I think that's a huge part of the big picture: we have to make sure that we don't forget what we have learned through our sitch's and make sure that what was being put on the "back burner" never gets luke warm again.

It honestly takes an effort and that's pretty much how we all got where we are -- someone, whether it was H or W or both, wasn't putting effort into the things that need to be nutured in an M, even through all the daily stresses w/ work, kids, etc., etc.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10