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It took about a month for me to really notice my headaches easing up. As time went on it helped more and more. I am surprised the doctor has changed your medication so many times. I hope you have some success with those rotten headaches. I feel for you!!!

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The reason why my doctor has changed my meds so many times is because of allergic reactions.

Imitrex - mild case of anaphylaxis
Vicodin - Vomiting, nausea
Percocet - Itching
Migratine - It did nothing
Cafrogot - Tingling hands and feet, blue finger & toe nails
Predinsone - Rash

So, as you can see I have a very high intolerance of medications. It's really quite frustrating, because it limits my avenues of treatment. Today I am heading back in to my GP to see what the next step is. The antibiotics for the sinusitis did nothing and so she said that if that was the case to come back in.

I'll keep you all posted with what happens next.

Although last night has been the worst. The headache was so bad I threw up several times. Unfortunately, H was not around to help me out. He decided to go to a work function, and came home stinking drunk. I was so annoyed because the boys were asking me where their Dad was. S3 even ended up in tears because he didn't get to say good night to his Dad. I even called H and asked him to come home soon because of the kids. He said soon....yeah soon was 11:45.

Don't get me wrong. I don't mind him going out, it's just with the trust issues I have AND the fact that OGW works in the same department as him. You get the idea. H didn't remember coming home or when he arrived home. He asked me this morning what time he came home, because he thought it was 10. NOT!

Anyways...

I'm off to lunch. I'll be back to post around.

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So, my H just found out that he got a promotion! He will be transferring (again) to a totally different department but this time working as a supervisor. He will be returing to normal working hours...M - F, 8 - 5. Plus he got a huge raise! He's so excited because he doesn't especially like the job he has now. And he took a pay cut to take it. Mainly to get away from OGW. (Who ended up working in his department again!) So, now he will be away from OGW and with a brand spanking new job.

I told him how proud I was of him. And that I've always known he could do it. He said that if it weren't for me, he didn't know where he'd be. And that I keep him in line and sane. LOL

I'm thinking this may hamper our move to Las Vegas, but maybe I'll be able to visit my family more since we will have a little more financial freedom. Course I'd also like to buy a bigger house, but one thing at a time right?

Otherwise, I'm still suffering from those dibilitating headaches. I am going to be getting an MRI on Friday to get a better look at my sinuses. I don't know what the next course of action is after that.

Things between H and I are going great. And he is noticing how SS11 has been treating me. He's always treated me like the dirt he walks on, and I've tried to tell H that. H never believed me, and now it's gotten out of hand. SS11 argues with me every chance he gets, even when I try to ignore him and walk away. He insists that he is right and I am always wrong. It's now affecting the behavior S3, and I will not have 2 children in my home thinking they have authority over me.

Since H let SS11 behavior get out of hand, we are now having to make emergency fixes. Which to me seems a little late, when we could have nipped in the bud earlier. Plus, it's affecting his school work. His grades are horrible, and SS11 thinks it's not a big deal. All he is worried about is that it will be summer soon, and end of story.

I don't know, I try not to push the issue. But, I don't want his education to suffer because I didn't say anything. And as sad as it sounds SS11 is the laziest person I know. He refuses to do more than is needed, and complains when we (as parents) get angry because he only does mediocre work. SS11 is a smart boy, and we've told him so. But, he chooses only to do it half way and thinks it's okay. I say it's not, and always have. H on the other hand always yelled at me when I yelled at SS11 when he got an F on papers or I got phone calls.

I know I shouldn't be complaining. Because H is doing something now. But, in some aspects I ask...why now? Was the MLC fog that thick before? Or what?

Other than that I am in a pretty good mood. Mainly cause of H's news. We will be going out for dinner tonight to celebrate. \:\)

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