runner, It's about looking inside yourself to see what you can improve within your marriage....from your side, and taking accountability for that, then working on it as YOU can. It's about really taking a close look at yourself to see "am I really doing what it takes to meet his needs?"...those aren't changes, that's just self analysis and self-awareness within the marriage. It's also about not hiding your true feelings, not being afraid to speak up in your own marriage, and asking for what YOU need too....communication.
GEL
perfectly stated...and i do believe since MC I have started that process of really appreciating the burdens my H has in running his own company. I also feel that my energy was in the past...selfish. I would only think about me and feeling good and going out to get that attention i wanted from the weight loss. But ultimately, I needed to remember that I was and am a mother and a wife. Feeling good about myself doesn't need to come from others attention toward me...but from the great mother I am and wife. And also, feeling good about myself ultimately has to come from within andnot from anyone else. Attention from others is a dangerous thing.
