FWIW Runner...because YOU recognize the issue it's not wise to sit back and wait for your H to do things. You recognize the issue so you should step up and address it, by as you said communicating and trying things.
GEL
The problem is...when we went to counseling...he knew we had issues. Now we have stopped counseling and we have been just moving forward. I am afraid to open up the can of worms so to speak...I know I need too. I figure the less confrontational way would be to suggest reading the 5LL book.
