Ok, we have had plenty of advice given to the HD men on here on what THEY need to do. That does NOT apply to this thread. This is a LD women that wants to fix her marriage. So what advice do you give HER on changing herself (just like you give the guys).
Why do I have to change myself? I don't think one should necessarily change themselves ... reading the 5LL is something that makes more sense to me. Communicating on the needs we have and what areas in the marriage are constant dividers. Every day life has issues and some build our marriage and others tend to wear away at it...by addressing these...i would think that would be the start. Not by just changing oneself to accomodate the other. How true to oneself is that.
