Aud, I feel like I missed a page somewhere. You drew the line, you cut off contact b/c he's a pathological liar, you physically left town to LRT for a bit and get perspective...
...and he's back home? With no admissions or agreement to your core beliefs?
How did that happen? You're stronger than that, and I don't understand what made you cave in so fast just to have him home? I'm confused. Sorry if that sounded harsh, I just missed the whole moving home thing. Do fill me in.
Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Is 43:18-19
If it seems slow in coming, wait. It's on its way. It will come right on time. Hab 2:3