"I just don't think dating you right now is a good idea" "I just don't have those feelings like I should and its not fair to you to put your life on hold. Maybe down the line this could work, I don't have a crystal ball but maybe 6 mo or a year or even 6 weeks" "I like the way my life is right now"
Well you have been at this a hell of a lot longer than me. But if this quote above doesn't scream MLC to you, I don't know what will.
Again, I see you are so very tired sweets. I can only imagine how draining this is for you.
But, again, YOu are the one in control.
She has feeling for you, she felt scared. She pulled away. Isn't that what they all do? pull away when they feel close?
Well if you want to , you can be upset about this. You can pray, punch a wall , whatever gets you thru.
THen you will be stronger yet again.
If by Saturday morning you still feel very upset, then tell her, something came up, Let's make it for another time.
I love the "crystal ball" talk, My H does the same thing.
“Pray as though everything depended on God. Work as though everything depended on you.”
