EMT,
You are doing great, just try to avoid all R talk with your W and focus on YOU! I have found this to be my key to having a PMA. Even when my W brings up related subjects (like how some of our friends "just don't understand how it is"!?), I just validate what she says and move on. Try it, you'll like it!

SD

Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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