One more thing. I would like to set up a definite schedule of when he takes the kids. Right now he just calls the day of and asks to take them. I would like to set it up so that he takes them on 2 definate days for the week and one definite day on the weekend. I think this is a good idea. I think its a boundary but Im not sure. ANy more advice? You guys are awesome by the way. This is the first place I come when I am upset or have a question. Thanks so much Heather
