...well said J...great.

Tam move the office home this weekend...just do it.

YOU are delaying his chances of return...
" " causing him to stay with her...
" " pushing him...

YOU say you don't cling...last Hawaiian trip...you landed home
and he wanted to see a site...you asked to go along...he wanted
to go by himself...you asked to go again...after being with him
for a solid week...he needs space from you...that's why he's
with her...it's your neediness that he despises....yet you keep
pushing, pushing and pushing youself on him...