Tam move the office home this weekend...just do it.
YOU are delaying his chances of return... " " causing him to stay with her... " " pushing him...
YOU say you don't cling...last Hawaiian trip...you landed home and he wanted to see a site...you asked to go along...he wanted to go by himself...you asked to go again...after being with him for a solid week...he needs space from you...that's why he's with her...it's your neediness that he despises....yet you keep pushing, pushing and pushing youself on him...