Hi, fearless.

Chrome wrote; "The possibility strongly exists that she will feel the vacuum and step in to try to fill it."

I think that creating any additional "vacuum" in the relationship will unbalance it in a negative way.

What I do think that needs to happen, is for Chrome to stand his ground, and figure out who he is concurrently.

He can start by figuring out what it really means to be a father to his kids, and what kind of man it takes to be a good father. He can figure out what kind of husband he wants to be and make a plan to become that.

There are many ways for a person to build their confidence in-situ.

All the best,
-NOPkins-


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.