Neither am I to that point yet, either. I do not know for sure if he is still talking to ow or not. And with you, since he is going overseas next month, I don't think it is the time to threaten D anyway. And if things are starting to look pretty good, why send him away with THAT on his mind? He will be able while he is there to think about your M, and have LOTS of time to gain insight into the decision he has to make. And another thing, to the guys (and girls) over there, family is just about the most important thing there is. So, anyway, when he is there, go and get a glamour shot done, and send it to him, and the other guys will tell him he's a total a** to let you get away.
