When she said about how the other's wives got pampered, maybe you should have said " I KNOW what you mean! A couple of guys at work are SOOOO lucky! Sex 8 or 9 times a week, oral sex performed on them several times a week, and the variety and enthusiasm!! Man, I know what it's like to be jealous. And the best thing is, their wives do this because they WANT to!! Because they love their man, and appreciate all that he does for his family. They understand there will ALWAYS be people with more, but that he is doing his ABSOLUTE best, and they appreciate it immensely."
Now THAT would have been a great comeback....
She was however, great in the sex dept...actually,up until the bomb she was an amazing lady... I kinda wish she would have bitched at me instead of holding it all in developing some kind of resentment toward me.
She always seemed content at least....everyone has things to bitch about...job, money, etc... She never once made her complaints about me, until....
I did do the best I could at the time....looking back though I can see places I could have improved...hindsight 20/20 right?? She could've said something...we could've worked together and made this right...
Aughh...I got to stop looking back...lotta good thats gonna do me now anyway...
BTW...hated my job too....6 days a week...seven nights...split shift kind of thing....not nearly enough money...I should have left there years ago... always check to check, I was afraid to be out of work for long if a new job didn't work out...kept myself stuck... and yet, she didn't seem to mind...even came up to help me at times... things like that are what make this seem so crazy to me...
M41 W36 D19 D17 Married 20 Years Bomb Dropped Feb 14,2007...Our Anniversary and Valentines Day
