It sounds like things are back to "normal" in your neck of the woods. Sorry to hear about D's depression, but all the comments about just being a non-judgmental listener apply. That's the one thing that will make a difference in a child's life. I never talked to my parents about things I was going through because they never listened, they just pushed the party line. It wasn't safe to talk to them, so I didn't.
And, ain't that the truth about DBing everyone in your life! I've got two co-workers I'm DBing like crazy.....
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!