As for the divorce question - are you getting child support from him? I am supposed to be recieving support from him, but he hasn't paid since before Christmas (because he got fired from Schneider). He missed a conference with them, and was suppost to go to court for willfully disobeying an order of the court. But that's the last I heard of it. Do you have a legal separation? Not as far as I know, how is that done? If you do, then I guess divorce isn't such an issue - but if you're not legally separated, I'd be worried about whether you're protected from his debts, whether he's obligated to provide health insurance for the kids, etc. I recommend you get some legal advice to find out what your liabilities are. (For instance - if he doesn't pay his income taxes - will the government come after you?). I filed the taxes this year for him, so I know that no one will be coming after me. I am however now going to do what it takes to find out more about legal seperation, thanks Ellie)
Doesn't he have family who would know where he is? He is staying with his mother in NM. She lied directly to me about him being there. His sister is the one that told me he was out in NM (I assumed because I got some paperwork from him postmarked from NM). But she wasn't sure what the deal was, if he was visiting or if he had moved, etc. Why would it be so hard to locate him? Unfortunately, it might get harder, not easier, to locate him in the future if he's still whacked out. Does he still work for the same company? I sort of answered this one already.... he was fired.
Not saying that you need to pursue divorce at this time - but I can't remember if you're legally separated, if you're not, you need to be for your own protection, given how whacked he is.
Now - on to the University of You. What are your plans, girl? Your dreams? I am still working on my plans and dreams really. I am still doing my home schooling for the vet. assisant thing. I am babysitting currently, in search of an a actual job)
I actually had my first conversation EVER with my biological mother lastnight, so I am excited about that ( It might be a touch OT but it's exciting.)
I am hoping to get a cheap car with my tax return, so then I'll be able to get my license (sad that I don't have already, but at least I have my permit now).
I am a work in progress... and now that I am not totally focus on Kevin... and fixing our relationship (it was really poisonious to me) I can work on "fixing" myself.
