Yes, in the past 4 months I've done the most "DBing" (not really DBing but just helping myself move on, and trying to better the relationship I do have with friends, family and of course my girls)
The girls are doing very well. Kiya is now almost 10 months old and she's been crawling and is now standing and trying to walk, up the steps and into everything. Felina (almost 3) is talking in almost full sentences and has made some new friends, and what a blessing she's potty trained. Her new friends include the boy that I babysit.... I took up babysitting for awhile to add some extra money to situation.
All in all I think that this is going to be a year... I have faith.
