CeMar, Oh come on! That is absolutely not the intent of my response to you and you know it...but you sure will go out of your way so that YOU DON'T HAVE TO DO ANYTHING TO ADDRESS YOUR PROBLEMS IN YOUR MARRIAGE won't you? Would you just put your big boy pants on and quit playing the martyr already!
You seriously won't even take the advice that you give to someone else...and apply it to your own situation?! Why is it good enough for you to dish out to someone else...but not good enough for you to take?
This has NOTHING to do with the man going first either...this has to do with the person who sees the situation as a problem...and that is YOU.
I find it humorous that not only do you brush off the advice others here give you, but you are brushing your own advice off as well.
