How is your X's realtionship with the Lord? Has he confessed to someone and is he being accountable to another brother?
I have a couple of guys in my men's group who cheated, have confessed to their wives and some men who now hold them accountable. The guys need the prayer and support or else it is like a drug addict trying to kick the habit on their own.
The OW is like the drug, calling back out to the junkie.
Quote:
James 5:16 Confess your trespasses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much.
If this has not happened, give it over to the Lord in prayer and through fasting. Lovingly lead him here vs. beating him over the head. When H is fully committed to his healing through this type of confession, accountability and prayer (if he isn't already), your peace and security in the marriage will increase and he will sense it which will improve the marriage as well.
Bless you and again, I am truly so happy for you. God is sooo good, even when things do not go the way WE wanted them to go.
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