Grace, Love the attitude. I too would go back and do it all again despite the pain I'm going through now and have been through the last 6 months.
Mom, I know it has to be hard that your H filed for divorce right away. Just get on with your life and do fun stuff with your girls. Make friends, renew old relationships, go out, have fun. That is honestly what has helped me the most of anything to not care so much about what he is doing. My H didn't really want to have anything to do with me the first few weeks either and as soon as I stopped trying and started doing things with other friends he started calling and coming around more and more. He's still a long way from being home, but at least it's better than it was. ((((((Mom2))))))
There is only one person who could ever make you happy, and that person is you. David Burns, Intimate Connections
