Ali,

It hurts a little that your H had a tyrade and critisized your parenting skills. That's a big no no. I just finished an awesome book that Sven suggested. I actually downloaded it to my ipod. It's called, "For Men Only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women" by Shanti Feldhahn. It might be some good listening for him on one of his long road trips.
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He also said our R was not good and I have not changed...
I think he might be speaking about himself ey?

You were tested here, and I think you held up very well. You are getting stronger, and you're not standing down, that's good. He's way off base when he goes into his tyrade. That's very unhealthy, and NOT OK, even when followed by a major ass kissing. You might think about picking a nice calm time and explain to him that his temper is not OK, and he needs to stop exploding on you.

Stay strong, and God Bless You,

COG

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