ERC,

Good to help OMW with DB.

I appreciate your honesty.

The affair will only end on it's own.

Don't listen to what she says: God told her to have an affair? Hmmmmmm.

At this stage, you can't argue, reason or maneuver you wife into doing anything.

You can, however, choose to live from your gut, and become a warrior, a joyful, wonderful person.

This joyful person can choose to:

1. Stand for the marriage. You may get her back. You may not.

2. End the marriage.

You hold all the cards. She's played hers. What can you fear? She's already done the worst she can do.

--Theoden