Your needs are NOT more important then hers. So one of you must go first. YOU GO FIRST! Meet her needs FIRST. Meet her needs UNCONTIONALLY, just as you expect her to meet YOURS unconditionally.
CeMar, you just doled out this advice to someone....now take it and apply it to yourself as well (I changed the gender to apply to you). If this advice is good enough for you to give to someone else, it should be good enough for you to take and apply in your own situation as well....shouldn't it? Now, lets see you argue against your own advice.
