I don't think you are screwing things up. Are you pushing anything? nope didn't think so. Are you contacting her, nope didn't think so... W is contacting you. and W telling you it was a nice time with you. is GREAT
as for DD, let him stew. and the more he stews the more he will probably end up being possesive and/or jealous which she will see and she will see that you are not that way!
Keep doing what you are doing.
wife of an addict M 39 H 39 D18 D 16 Together 19 M17