EA turned PA, Wife on the fence

[2stardog]

So my sister in law gave my W some advice "Put your family first for a whole month and see if you're any happier". Some great advice, the problem is my wife's career has too many balls in the air at the moment. Hell, she's "at work" right now (or out w/ the OM for all I know). Things have been better, but she says she's not physically attracted to me and she's not sure why (I think 'cuz she longs for the OM). She needs that "In love can't live with out the other person" feeling(The OM provides a reasonable facsimile of this). I think it's easy to long for some one you've not had even one disagreement with!!! Do any of you remember when you thought "Wow we're perfect together, We never fight." about your R. I remember thinking that. The OM also I heard through the grapevine, moved out of his family home the other day. So apparently, a "Love Nest" awaits if they do choose to fire up the PA again. I'm trying so hard not let my emotional agony cut into my interactions with her. But I do slip up a little too frequently. She's just so damn beautiful to me and always has been. Last night she gave me a totally unsolicited "lip plant" in the kitchen. It made me feel good and I told her so.(w/out seeming to worked up over it). I'm trying not to look anything into what's been happening w/us lately . It does help a bit.