Right now I'm just trying to do nothing (which is hard) and let the dust settle a bit. Though I feel like the Morton salt girl, I also know that the roof won't fall in tomorrow and I'm holding onto that right now to get me through.
Will have to talk with the STBXW about this in the not-too-distant future as this could substantially change the landscape. I'm not looking forward to that.
Talked with a couple head-hunters today. I'll fill in more details when my head stops spinning. Think I'll go read a few chapters in Job tonight (feeling a kinship with the guy for some reason ).