RCR...i find your input thot provoking ....my H lives w OW maybe since sept...would say much later....i would think not...affair a year.....he looks like crap if i may say so. good thing huh? i just got the spew of letting him go down the tubes cos i wont subsidize his new life by paying"our" bills....the debt "we created together"...i wont care if he lives in a cardboard box......spew spew......its taking a physical, emotional, psycological toll on him.....but its NOT depression...he says......its all my fault he says.......bleh as Lis would say
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
