Gosh Yoyo your description of Easter reminds me of Memorial Weekend with my husband last year. That was about the time my husband finally let go of his anger and was open for friendship. I was putting the hand of friendship out without any expectations (I was fully detached and completely prepared for divorce), but I was also putting out the occassional invitation knowing he might be a bit lonely and missing out on family things, holding no grudges or animosity (I think that's a key in this whole thing. The LBS absolutely MUST let go of anger and blame), and just being pleasant and happy with my life wherever it was going.
Being nice and friendly, but always without expecting anything in return. It's being able to give knowing you might get nothing back, and giving the other person the space to figure out where they really want to be.
To me it sounds like you're going in the right direction. Good for you!
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
