wow..first off...thank you for the long letter. I have some things to think about and make my list. YOu have a great way of tackling things and dissecting through the story for the facts.
1. I'd like to hear him compliment what i do in a day...more often... 2. I'd like him to work on his parenting and be positive...and work on being creative rather than taking the easy approach of just yelling at them. They just want him to be involved with them...and I imagine he just wants to sit and relax and read the paper or watch the news. 3. He will relieve me if I ask....but I guess I don't really have the opportunity or circle to go out and unwind. Not many moms do this....because of "family". Or the ones that do...are just out on the prowl. 4. He now is impressed with my weight loss...but my feellings changed in that first yr when he was oblivious to it.
I have some thinking to do. Poor guy...he is just being the husband and working and trying to be a successful business man...and I have a really nice life. I guess the basic needs that i feel are missing are the attentive needs rather than the physical...
Yikes, I spent all day on the computer...better check on the kids. Thank you for trying to help me with this...
Are you ld with your wife...or is it the opposite way around...and have you been able to get to the heart of the matter and see improvement?
