runner, Things got way worse before they got better. I wanted my H to be more manly and confident; he wanted me to admire him and be more openly desiring of him. The sexual issues went hand in hand with other issues, resulting in our distancing more and more. For awhile our major focus was the house and kids. When the distance became overwhelming, I found myself reading divorce/relationship books and found this board.
That sounds like me...house, kids, school work.... and I am overwhelmed with the situation...that is why i stumbled onto this board. I felt chronically sad. I guess it just helps to get everyone's spin and to know that other people are in this boat. It is way too easy to get EA if you talk about something like this with someone you live near....I have found myself doing that...
