H is home - now what?

[Heywyre]

I'll give you some good advice that was given to me by (many) other seasoned posters on here: STOP BEING HIS MOTHER AND TELLING HIM WHAT TO DO. As long as you keep doing that, he will resist, trust me, I know where you are at. Regardless of what you do, you can't stop him from doing what he wants to. It's like a parent that tells a teenage girl not to go out with a certain boy - ya right like that's going to happen. All it will do is make her want to go out with him even more

HE is the one that has to decide when it is right for him to stop calling and talking to her (1) YOU can't make him stop and (2) you can't make HER stop either

So quit your whining and GAL