D12 has made it clear that she has no interest in meeting OM, I have not spoke to D14 yet, but she would likely feel the same way. I have made it a point to NOT be negative about all of this in front of the kids, have had no discussions with my wife on the subject when the kids are around. I really don't want their relationship destroyed, but at the same time don't want the kids to have to deal with OM at all. I like the idea of letting the kids decide what they want to do, but that leaves S6 out in the cold.

I just feel so down that I even have to think about the fact that my wife would not keep her word. What a fall, I would have trusted her with my life a few short months ago, and now I can't trust her to keep her word or protect her chldren.


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Me 43, waw 44, 3 kids(D15,D12,S6)Married 19yr, together 27yr. Bomb 11/27/06, Separated 3/1/07 Divorce filed 4/18/07,

"Because it is in giving that we receive; In forgiving that we obtain forgiveness; In dying that we rise to eternal life" St. Francis