I hate when my H calls Ow half of the time. It is bad enough she calls him everyday every day, I am so so so sick sick sick of it. I told him I can't tell him what to do, but asked him to stop all the phone calls.
Hah! Wishful thinkin on my part!
And (backslide) I reminded him he promised to end it with her before he came home... what a jerk!!!!! I told him she is tearing us apart and pitting us against each other AGAIN!
Why is it I have to be the one to keep bending over backwards and letting him walk all over me and my boundaries when he should be so glad to have me with how good i treat him! I just don't get it. I can see doing this for a time, but something has got to give!