There are some guys who are pretty much in it for the sex only. I prefer the whol gamut of physical activities. The orgasam to me is the icing on the cake. There are tons of physical activies that actually make up the cake, like cuddling, kissing, petting, teasing, being playful, mainly, JUST BEING HORNY and seeing where it goes from there. What often happens in SSM is that when the ld women trys to correct things, all she hears is that her husband needs more sex, and that is often NOT the case.
