Resentment might be my issue too....resentment towards him for his actions and maybe we have grown apart in our interests. Hate saying that because it sound like an excuse and not a way to work on the problems.
Well, if you've got resentment, let's haul it out in the open and see what's what.
Forget what's turning you on or not turning you on. What has he done that you resent him for? No one can fix anything until you can spell out specifically how you feel he has wronged you and how you feel he continues to wrong you.
So far, I've seen:
1. Neglecting you 2. Snapping at the kids 3. Being dismissive or oblivious about your weight loss achievement 4. Cranky jealousy when you want to dress-up and show off your new body
Anything else?
a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.
