Well, he had 2 EA's/PA, but no sex, this was approx 5 yrs ago. He had the one night stand sometime after that time, I'd say w/in a year or 2 (this scenerio was he was deployed, out @ bar - hotel manager saw him & used master key to get into his room & gave him a BJ, he promptly kicked her out). He didn't tell me about any of these until 2 1/2 yrs ago.

This latest is an EA, I'm pretty sure I know who it is, but have not asked specifically for name. Not sure how long it has been going on. He told me about it maybe a month ago. It seems they still talk on the phone, but only on his cell or when I'm not going to be around, however, he has been more open about her and actually did call her one time from home phone knowing I would walk in. She and another person from work were going to another town to get his work going away present & he was calling to make sure they got back ok b/c there was a lot of construction on highway.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10