[quote=NewJourney]I think it's great you lost the weight and have a desire to be recognized as a woman and not just a mother. Have you discussed this at all with your H?

I have...and he knows that i just like to put on make up, get dressed up, and feel good. As a stay at home mom....i live in sweats and shower mid afternoon! SO when I do go out, It is a luxury to get decked out. Sometimes, he will even get angry and say "wy are you getting all decked out to workout!" But that is my time to see people...I typically am home the rest of the day doing activities with my kids. I like to look nice because I feel better about myself. Nothing more. And I do tell him this...