Sorry you hit one of "those" bumps this weekend. It is a normal, natural bump to experience. I think I hit that one about 3weeks ago when I put my foot down about OW and have now backed off. No more snooping or seeking.
Yep, it IS one month for every year of marriage.
BUT
My question has also been, what about the pre-marriage years? Do I need to count those too?
Keep letting H feel what he is doing for the kids. It will give him purpose.
Like you, I have the same thoughts, feelings, concerns and questions, especially since children are involved.
Hugs for now!
MariS
"Going for the Gold & not the Booby prize"
Become the change you want to see.....
Me - 37 WAH - 35 child - 2yrs Separated - August '06 Married - 10yrs, Together 18 Not feeling WAH's internal struggle - Feb '08
