Life goes on, and it ain't about Job

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I have no intention of rushing off to a lawyer, my point is that I can't trust what my wife says. She has already lied to me point blank about this and so many other things. If I talk to her and she agrees that it is a bad idea, which she has already said, I have no assurance that she won't do it anyway. I told her again the other night thanks for respecting my wishes on this, her response "it is my(her) wish as well, as it would be inappropriate for them to meet." Of course when this all began she said it would be inappropriate for her to sleep with someone else while she was still married, and "would never do that." I guess she never really directly commented on how she felt about getting engaged while still married to someone else!