Could Use Some Input Over here

[RedHeadWife]

His "gripes" were that I never wanted to have sex (true), I had become angry, bitter & tired (true), he said once "I just wanted you to talk to me" (which I am now doing). I guess my feeling is that the "connecting" is kind of like "piecing" -- it's going to take him awhile to get there or us to get there -- I have told myself to be patient -- it took him a long time to get to where he was saying "I don't love you like that" so it's going to take him awhile to get that back and to get back to where he needs to be in the M.

Honestly, I am so scared to bring up any R talk at all b/c of what it might trigger in his mind - does that make sense? I just want us to have as much "good time" before he leaves as we can. I don't want to go & ruin what we have built back up/established in the past weeks. We are finally seemingly doing so much better and I don't want to do anything to put us back at "square 1" again.