Could Use Some Input Over here

[RedHeadWife]

I know we're getting away from the SSM part here, but I swear I am being a totally devoted W in every aspect of our M. I think that's why he finally came around -- that and the fact that I never got angry w/ him about the D bomb and all that came w/ it. I have just been very, very constant this whole time in the changes I have made in myself and for our M.

I guess that's why I am wondering why he needs to still be talking to her. Like I said, though, I just don't want to rock the boat right now by asking anything about her. We seem to be doing so well w/o any R talk, etc. We're also in a different sitch in the fact that he's leaving for the year on May 1. I am not getting the feeling any more that he's just pacifying me. I mean he & I are talking way, way future plans that include us being married, etc.