Trying to piece at last

[stillme]

The way I am seeing at the moment after tonight and the way he ran out on me Fri night he isnt really trying to pice this marriage at all. Did you not say in your very first post that you had a control-issue thing in your M and that was (one of?) the reason H felt he needed to leave? (Hey, I can spot a control-freak - even a 'sneaky' one - a mile away: I IS one!) I know. I know. But the "are we okay" and "can you stand me until D Day" convos still come under the "NO R TAlK" rule, even in Piecing. Nikki makes a great point about what a newly-dating person would feel/think about you if you had those same needy convos. Let it go. Just Do It. You are doing so well. The lols & fun times are coming along great, but the expectations of H - not a good thing. You want to show him the New Improved You, remember? (The first thing I thought of - which is of course only a guess - is that maybe H wanted to stay behind (instead of jumping up to walk you/girls home) in order to share the good news or get support for the 2 of you. (And, if so, how would your expectation & attitude may have changed what he said/thought. . . Again, just one of many poss. reasons)

BUT as I always say tomorrow is another day and things may change. (hopefully) You bet! Tomorrow IS another day; and things WILL change! Things that you have control over (yourself, your thoughts, actions, feelings) WILL change. Good luck. I'll keep checking back, H. You really are doing well. [[hug]]