However, I had to sign my papers. He was the petitioner. He filed on March 6. I just made an appointment with my lawyer without filing. I had a certain time frame that I had to respond to his petition. He came to me last week and asked me to delay the divorce. Made it sound like he wanted to reconcile. Two days later, he spent the day with her, turned cold to me again and I saw her vehicle parked outside our house yesterday. He told me to think about things for the week, but before that week was over, he was already with her. I haven't said anything to him about it. I am concentrating on myself and trying not to let it get to me. Throughout the past few months he kept saying he wanted the D. I kept telling him to just let it sit for awhile until things calmed down. The last time it was talked about prior to March 6, he told me wasn't going to wait anymore and that he was going to file. So...........he did. On the brighter side, we can actually communicate. Well, not really, he is avoiding me now. I am done with the screaming matches. He was rude to me on Easter, but I ignored him and just kept being calm and cheery. I feel better when I do this. I am continue to work on myself and trying to walk through this treacherous road.
