We have a tendency to think all our spouses are mind readers. You are questioning him WAY TOO MUCH - you need to let it go. Unless it is REALLY something I desperately need to clear the air about, I don't initiate any R talks (my H does them all - he didn't at first but is getting really good at bringing them up himself now)

There is a time and place for everything. You are just getting pieces of your life back - don't blow it!

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)