Also do not mention it to D14. If she wants to talk about it she will...No the positive thing is that D12 realizes that it is wrong and does not want to be around OM. Unfortunately in my sitch I was made out to be the bad guy to my kids because they fell in love with JSO because he bought his way into their life.
Just stay focused on your kids and keep expressing your concerns about your two childrens emotional responses to introducing them to the OM at such an early time...
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."