Unfortunately you can only voice your opnion on the matter. It took me getting a restraining order and filing to get the CB to understand that it is just not right...However, my sitch is way different than you when it comes to that.
Question for you though....
Does you D12 ever bring up the OM?
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."