thanks 25, I do document when he takes the kids, when he tries to switch and how often he calls them. As far as $$, what I meant when I said I don't have any is that I don't have any of my "own" meaning no savings. Every penny is going into paying the bills and the mortgage...Since H left H is not giving me what he used to when he lived here...so the bills are the same but I lost 1200 a month. I am afraid when this is over I will have no savings incase of emergency etc...
H is supposed to p/u kids tonight maybe he will say something then...
