The fat lady is warming up....

[stilldazed]

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First off, I am so sorry to hear the bad news. When it rains it truly pours. Nothing I can say would ease the pain, but you have provided me with so much valuable insite I almost feel indebted to you.

I remember way back someone asked you about what you did professionally and you seemed to side step the question so I wont ask, but if you feel comfortable disclosing the industry or something general I would be interested in listening. As far as your home, there are alot of solutions, and things you can do immediately to help your chances. I believe IWMIW has some expertise in this too. If you feel comfortable discussing such matters I am all ears and may actually have some helpfull advice (as opposed to my DBing). If not, that is just fine too, but you are in my thoughts and prayers tonight.